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"The Six of Chalices card suggests that if left to your own devices, you will continue to build up a shield of romantic defenses over time. Unresolved emotional issues could now be influencing the romantic choices or the roles you play in your relationship. Watch for a tendency to idealize or cling to past illusions or to allow your desires to be suppressed, belittled or patronized, all in the name of love. Before you fall for it again, know your own motives and limits."

That was my Daily Tarot Card reading for today....How I wish I could just have the choice to be able to fall for it again....


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Sep the thing about those Tarot reading is that they change from day to day. I think this one does say a lot though!


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I know lol....if only we were communicating a bit more...grrrr

Patience, patience, patience......


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So I had to text H today about a notice I got in the mail for him and he asked me to open it and tell him what it said....as if he doesn't know since he's been getting the same notice for the last 3 months and everytime it says the same thing. Anywho I texted him back told him and.......NOTHING not even a thank you...WTF??

Grrr trying not to get agravated, I mean maybe he is working and hasn't had a chance to respond, I don't know. Still even working he could text a quick 2 seconds TY.


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I am good though I haven't texted him a nasty comment assuming why he hasn't wrote back....I'm just not acknowledging it at all!!!!

Total 180, in the past I would have said something stupid....


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Hi! Good job for not firing back a nasty text, and yes it's true you don't know why he hasn't responded.

I've gotten used to my xh not responding to my messages even though he feels the need to respond to everyone else! Quite often he'll say "your text didn't require a response" BS.


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Exactly!!!! I was only looking for a Thank you at least damnit.


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**Light Bulb going on**

I set myself up with an expectation!! Ding Ding Ding


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That's all part of being a DAM.

Maybe this takes us back to "no expectations"? Maybe you expected a TY? Maybe it's best to hope for one and then if he doesn't TY you don't get so disappointed?


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lol we posted at the exact same time the exact same idea!


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