if that was directed to me sg then yup...i did talk about myself. I also worked as a speaker for violence awareness organizations
i used what happened to me to give examples on things you might need to do. People listen to stories better when they are about specific people they can see and hear rather than statistics on a page
which is why most domestic violence workers have been victims of abuse or have witnessed abuse
to allow someone to continue to continue to speak about how they abuse their spouse and how it is correct to do so is disgusting
so
Phil can give a voice to an abuser why he spits at his why why he continues to follow her why he feels the need to disregard her feelings and place his hands on her why he demands hugs
i can give voice to someone who is experiencing abuse at the hands of a spouse or loved one
the someone who feels terribly small and came here looking for advice only to watch someone spew hatred and abuse as justified
i am not afraid of phil i am not afraid of you ban me or whatever you need me to do but i lived in silence for too long to allow someone else to beat someone into submission in front of me
you have to address this issue what i went through helped shape who i am
