What do I do well I am exercising right now down 10 pounds in the past few weeks and people are noticing I am also teaching scuba again and seeing as I am stuck here for a while getting into the house and garage more and more. I was very dependent on my wife and wholly ignored all my issues and hers, but who has not on here thought it will go right. I do not try to contact her unless I have to, I do want to so bad but dont give in. I have not moved on the lawyer as he said not to but she has most of her stuff here and I have her oldest son still here with me, just a bit lost I suppose.