Hey Jen sounds like you had a really good session. I think that she is 100% right on about him being confused which works for your benefit.
Now you know exactly what you were doing wrong (the over-reacting and OAI) so now the hardest thing will be making sure that they don't come through at least when he is around. Never even acknowledge anything about his phone ringing if/when it goes off around you....at that if he goes to answer it, walk away, show him that you have not the slightest concern of who it it is what he says to them.
You are already making great improvements, with the coach's help you will definatly be heading in the right direction to what you want.
