So, I've been doing pretty good lately. Not a lot to post. Stbx is still in some dreams, but I feel detached and positive about my independent life ahead. I can envision a happy picture with improvements in many categories in my life. Focusing on the improvements. Not blaming stbx, but feeling like I have new options that were not easily available before. Things I've always wanted in my life but were not possible with stbx or in my old city. It's so easy to meet new people lately. Maybe it's because I'm reaching out and looking for them in a way I've never done before. But, I've found many new groups (both professional and social). Saw an old friend recently who used to live in my old city and now lives in my new city. It really helps that I moved to a better city than I used to live in with stbx- that I'm far away and can feel like there are new, better things here for me!!!

Last edited by New Path RJ; 09/09/08 09:47 PM.

Me 40
H 39
2nd M- 6 months
No kids
Previous D, 1st M
DBer from 2003