P.S.

Actually, you are basing your trust in his honest on what he says, and on the current level of discord in his relationship with OW.

Neither are reliable indicators. ONLY his actions -- over TIME -- back toward your marriage age.

ACTIONS.

I have seen adulterous couples go from knock-down/drag-outs to "Oh sweetie, I'm sooooo sorry" inside of two hours.

I think he's trying to keep BOTH plates spinning on the ends of his sticks, and for the moment, that means he has to play you.

Sorry.

Puppy