We ONLY see one side of a story. We see someone tell their feelings. We get embroiled and think one person is the worst person on the board.
Folks....LOTS of people here receive and give really bad behavior.
What we DO here at divorcebusting.com is brainstorm solutions. Offer hope.
Feel free to do that.
Some of you know I left an abusive marriage. That does NOT mean this site is the place to talk about abuse, describe abuse, make someone think they are being abused, etc. If you think someone is being abused or is an abuser....you may post a link to a site for help. You may challenge them.
The DB way is to offer solutions. Experiment and monitor results. Do more of what works. This often works in these situations you describe.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
