Just to catch up....

Hubby says he has told OW they are done and he needs to get his life straightened out and it does not include her...

He has not moved his stuff from her house..stayed at a friends one night and with me last night..:)

I let him know that he could just come home and work on us here... i am not sure if he will come here or still try and find someone to stay with in the interim....

We have had some great talks... We both want to do things right to make this work and he doesnt want to hurt me again....

We have talked about the withdrawal from the OW...mostly I brought it up and let him know its a possibility.. that was the main reason he was going to stay with a friend.. to protect me.. and get his head clear.

I love him with all my heart and hope this is for real... but he has not had a chance to get his things..so every day is still pins and needles....


I will keep you all posted..

Sandy


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7/21/08 A W/Best Friend