Divorced but hoping to Reconcile

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Also...the way I look at it is that if you can tell your child you screwed up and then were sorry and did your very very best--and you know that is truthful--then it is worth it to make an effort to save the marriage.

I know I will be able to tell my D that. I don't think my H will. I have serious doubts that my H will approach the level of maturity that you gained.