I meant to answer your post yesterday, but I was sidetracked WAY out of the way, and now I'm not sure exactly what I was thinking 24 hours ago.
Oh well, I do want you to know that although you are a man and I am a woman, we have very similar spouses. They both seem to be in MLC. I agree with you that I don't want to be married to a man who has someone else who manages his time/money and sex life. But whether or not it is for the good of us or for the good of mankind, I don't think it is wise of us to try and move on just yet. I'm still coming out of the shocked phase, but I'm doing better.
I've come to the realization that I have to practice forgiveness. I don't know if you know this, but I have another handle. I call myself *love* and my thread is on the Forgiveness forum. You can go there if you wish.
I'm sorry you're hurting....and I know you are...I can feel it.
Peace and Quiet moments of inspiration live on in our hearts.
