Not long winded. I understand about the whole job exposure thing. If you now for sure confront him and expose to both of their friends and family, the OW too. Maybe steering clear of the job connections. Maybe that's a possibility.

Pretty sure your older children already know. My daughter saw me struggling and how mean he was(we didn't know yet) and she stopped me and said don't trust him mom. My reply was I need to think the best of him for now. I don't want to accuse I have no proof. After he told us she said I told you mom.


Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca