Hey Marisol, I saw your name on this thread. Glad you made it through. Like Phoenix's attitude. It's true is H home crying for you? no. You need to raise up for your self up and GAL. No matter what happens we need to take care of ourselves first and foremost. It kills me sometimes to leave my house and go walk on the beach knowing that my H might be leaving any day. But what good would it do sitting there crying over him. H and me would hate it. I am really trying. We also work together so it is hard to have no contact with him, but today I saw him when I was returning to work and he waves at me and stands there. I wave and drove on. Then I start to walk back in and I see him coming my way from a distance and I wave and walk right in without speaking to him. Trying to give him space and wonder where I was. I have stopped calling him unless absolutely need to and now he has been doing all the calling. He has OW and I hope it burns itself out but he is miserable with all this hiding and lying. Now get busy and call someone. Take a walk, go see a movie. get going. I know you can do it. Set a goal, when he calls you next time Don't pick up...make him wonder. go!
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
