Hi nlt,

Thanks for popping in and your hugs. I have calmed down a bit as I had a nice time with my friend in the afternoon. We went to the beach again and chatted for a while and then played some games. It was fun. However, it reminded me a bit of the time I spent with H, as we also played games "in the good old days".

I think I will either not reply to H's e-mail or just write in a week or so that I am sorry the way he feels. It is not worth my effort to get angry and explain to him why I am doing what I am doing. I have tried to explain to him a hundred times before, and he is still getting on about it.

I would still appreciate some more advice from "oldtimers". Thanks.

Tomorrow I am planning to meet the same GF again to go out in the town nearby. The weather is supposed to be a bit cloudy, and so we will not be able to go sunbathing again. Maybe Thursday will be ok. I guess these are the last days we will be able to do it.

I will have to attend to a few administrative things tomorrow. I don't really like not to have a second opinion. I used to discuss with H what to do and now I have to deal with it on my own.