how else will he know all of these thoughts that I have and things that I want to say. We haven't said much these past few weeks and I just want him to know that I am thinking about him
He doesn't care if you are thinking about him or what you have to say. He has OW. When you consider how your husband thinks of you, imagine yourself as a pest (a fly or something). If he was interested in your anniversary (and I will bet he's not...he's wrapped up in someone else) or in you, he'd be the one initiating.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
