pup,

Read your Reagan quote and just wanted to say I needed to hear that, thanks.

My wife knows that I don't approve of any of what she's doing, and I have found that the reason the other man left her was because he couldn't handle me being in her life long term. Also the reason she used to be so nasty and short with me was because he got jealous very easy. Now that he is gone, she is much more receptive to what I say, including asking my opinion on things non-R related and generally being friendly. She told me she feels awful for screwing me over and she is getting her 'just desserts'.

I was hoping you could help with how to word what I should say to her to get her to arrive at the frame of thought you mentioned in your last post...

'a lot has happened in the past 3 months, I don't approve of any of it, but it happened and we can't change it. I want you to know that you carrying someone else's child doesn't change the way I feel about you, and my door is open to reconcile at the right time'

How would you change that ?


M 31 W 26
M 6
S 6 S 3
Separated 6/2008
Back together 10/2008
All you need is love