Just an update here (since no one seems to really be looking anyhow and I need to bump here) she agreed to go to counseling with me...finally. There are no solution-based therapists within reasonable distance here. So I am going to have to shop around. This should be interesting.
M:42 W:38 D:9 S:6 married: 15+ together: 12.5 Bomb dropped: 4/18/05 Back together: 9/30/07 In trouble again: NOW