FG that is good news. That is how it started with my h. He wanted to get c. Now we started with MC, because that is what h wanted, but now he wants to start IC.
When he mentioned it, I said something like I think that is a great idea, would you like me to make an appointment? He said yes and it started the ball rolling.
Maybe you could see if your h needs help. If not, don't push.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
I was going to ask him if he wanted my help with it, but when he left he had it in his head that I was controlling, mean, etc (which I was) so I didn't want him to think I was trying to control that too. I'm still hoping what he said was true and that he's really going to get help.
He told me he would call me last night and never did.
H hasn't contacted me at all yet. I want to, but I'll wait. Since D started her Religious Ed classes on Wednesdays, we had to change his weeknight with her. He chose Tuesday until she starts her drawing class next month then it will be Mondays so he can pick her up from school and take her there. Anyway, I guess if I don't hear from him by 3'ish today then I'll email him to see if he's still picking her up or not.
I don't know what MLC does to their brains but they have no concept of time. At least my H does not.
He will say he will be here at noon, and he shows up two hours later. Or he will tell me he will call me or text me (he really has not done that in a while) and he doesn't.
I hope you hear from your H before you have to call him.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Did I miss something....when did you change your name?
I must be in my own little world this week!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
I just changed it this week. I wanted to stop using my real name just in case. I don't think anyone knows about me being here but it's better to be safe. When I first joined, I didn't see the rule suggesting you not use your real name so it's about time I did that.
I just got back to work from lunch and H emailed me. It was a nice email at least. Talked about work driving him nuts & put some humor in it about there only being so many times he can bang his head against his desk until they get it right. Then apologized for not calling like he said he would. Went out and watched the football game with some guys. Said he doesn't know why he bothers since it was freakin ridiculous. Then asked if he can see D tomorrow before Rel Ed class since he thought his 5:30 meeting was for Thursday not Tuesday. Said he hates to mess up my schedule and if tomorrow didn't work out then he'd tell his boss to cover for him.
If he asks his boss to cover for him, chances are he will stick with that schedule, right?
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Yea, but I don't want him to get into anything with his boss when he already hates this position. Tomorrow isn't a big deal to me at all really. He actually just called me on my cell about 10 min ago. I couldn't answer it since I'm at work and was on a call, but geesh!
