Its amazing Bridge how so many of us here are fighting for our M alone. Why is it that we can never seem to get out S to be on the same page at the same time.
I can tell you are getting really frustrated as I am in my sitch. It sucks and you wish you could just smack then upside the head and say wake up but you cannot.
I am glad the book is helping you understand his reactions and resistance to all of your efforts. If you do not feel comfortable talking in front of him don't. If he has a problem with that I would explain your reasonings to him. Your feelings are very important and if he does not respect them then why should you tell them to him. Its all about trust and until he earns yours I would stick to your guns.
