W pregnant with OM's child.......

[hopeful4her]

WRONG. Detaching doesn't mean "don'tgiveachit." Detaching means that you don't base your OWN decisions on how SHE is going to react to it (there's more to it than that, but that's the gist of it).

What you want HER to think is "Badcompany is a man of honor, and it's obvious that he still loves me, but he does NOT agree with what I'm doing, and he seems to be moving on without me. I hope it's not too late to try to get him back once I figure out w.t.h. it is I want to do!!!!"

This is something I needed to read as well. I feel I'm getting there myself. Now I just have to worry about the actual decisions I'm making in my life.

Thanks pup.