if you don't want to post then don't

stop talking about not doing it

just don't do it

what yourkids see is that their mom asked you not to touch her and you do
you are a needy clingon and can't even handle the small thing she asks you to do (don't touch me)

you followed her to school instead of just saying
well yipes I guess she handled that herself

you have to have your say at the detriment of others

you are an abuser
get help