I don't think anything has changed with you and wife.
The relationship usually never changes even with a separation. Yes the two people are displaced from one another but.. they still bring themselves to the "meeting point".
I am fairly sure I told you once that "You Become what You Judge". I would bet money that you and wife are right dead smack in the middle of a Role Reversal.. She is acting like you.. You are acting like her.. when things were "good". From what I have read.. you have been "here" for a while.
Both of you are acting out of "Emotion".. most likely "Hurt and Pain". Neither of you are really using your head. The thing about it is.. you are the only one we can talk to.. so again.. of course we are going to point out where you can do better.
Go back and read your posts.. read them with the thought that a friend is sending that to you via email.. or a text message.
What advice are you going to give that guy?
You have to step out of your train of thought.. to even have a chance.. even if you are 100% right with everything you are doing.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
