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I swear we are married to the same man except without the drinking. Oh, and even his pic is similar. Strange. Good job on the text!!


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
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ST & Nik - what are your FB names? Nik - I think I sent you a friends request.


Hmm I will have to look through the list again and see if I can find ya.

I can't post my full name here unfortunately as I think it's against board rules (my first name on there is my real name). Possibly a last name search by my DB board ID would work?


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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I found you on there Nik and sent you a friends request. If you do a search using blindsided - there I am.

SO2 - add yourself to that one, too.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
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Cool - thanks! I'll check it out when I'm on my home PC (can't get there from the work one).


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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well ladies, you can add another gentlemen to your list. my sis' H. she never quite figured out DBing and she never really would read the book. She's also my baby sis, so they are usually pretty darn stubborn. lol. anyways, he DOES have the drinking problem and everything else. they are getting the D, and my sis is, guess what. yup, prego.

soooo, anyways, not to talk about bad stuff... but B, your doing great, and I finally got to see you and the baby! you guys are precious! and you ARE a lucky mom. she is beautiful.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
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((B)) and ((K))
Hope you are having a better day after a lousy weekend. Just wondering, do you think your H could use the OW's card to buy me some new clubs? Or even better, to take you to dinner? I know, that's not very Christian, but it sure does bring a smile to my face. What is the date for the baptism? Peace.


Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse
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Filed again Jan 10, dismissed
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ST - that really sucks. Send her here. We'll help her get through this. Is it their first child? I really am so sorry to hear that. What is wrong with these men?

Goldeylox - funny gal. Yes, I got a kick out of it. It was one of those things that makes me realize how much he has NOT changed. I keep reminding myself, that at least I don't have to deal with his bad financial habits. She has paid for baby stuff, daycare and some of my bills, though. She knew about those things. I'm glad I don't have to buy him.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
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ya, I would like for my sis to come here, but she hasn't had a computer, and I don't think she would do it anyways. she just never got it, and she's so tired of it all and her oldest wants him gone too. It is sad.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

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hey sweetie, I was watching the country music show on tv last nite, Trace Akins sang, and I know this song isnt about marriage, BUT the chorus made me think of a few of my special friends here. I love the words, for some reason, they make me feel peaceful. anyways here is the chorus

You're gonna miss this
You're gonna want this back
You're gonna wish these days hadn't gone by so fast
These are some good times
So take a good look around
You may not know it now
But you're gonna miss this


M 36
XH 34
3 children
If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25
"your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight
ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010

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Thanks for the lyrics BG.

Just trying to get through the day. I do pretty well for a little while, but as the days pass and I don't talk to him, I start to miss him. I hate missing him. I get to see my in-laws for dinner, though. And, only 2 1/2 more hours and I can pick up my "sweetest of all pies" (as my Mom refers to her instead of sweetie pie - my family is weird. Poor K has no chance at a normal life - LOL)


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
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