With the new admission of her havign a BF - I felt like I had to tell her my convictions... I do not plan to continue this path unless it has a positive effect.
I am sure it will not have that effect - but the opposite right now - but I feel better for letting her know how I feel.
I do plan to go back to going dark and taking care of myself and my daughter.
Me:40 / W:33 / D:3 T:7.5/M:4 D Day: 1/24/08 Legal Separated: 6/12/08 BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08 Suspect BF pre-dates D Day