Hi all, I have the same concerns as you T2L. Do we just GAL and have our H think we are fine knowing we are not? I thought about writing a letter but I do not want him to share it with the OW. I even thought about writing a one page letter for tonight to bring to the MC. any thoughts? That is a hard call. This is why I want to follow DB. I want my marriage to survive and thrive in the long run. Also T2L, did you hire a private investigator or just have a friend follow them. I know my H is being very very careful. Since the OW works for him he cannot be "found out". They will get fired. He went out and bought a Blackberry just so he would not use his work phone. Very hush hush. It is bad.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
