Hey guys,
Ok the main idea of DB is, if possible to not divorce. That being said do our spouses know that we want reconciliation or should we tell them at some point? Or is just implementing GAL and waiting to see if they notice?

I've read so many books and resources. Some say to write letters some do not. Whats your opinion?


Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca