Is there any way you can find out? I was lucky. I was able to get the address of the OW and had her followed and pictures were taken of the 2 of them. I needed that for my sanity. I'm one of those personalities who needs proof. It's like there always is this little denial part that doesn't want to believe that it's true and i wanted to believe him and he kept saying that he had not gotten back with her. But he did.

So the OW names your husband in her MySpace page? Have you tried calling him out on it and asking him if there is another woman? I asked my husband a few times over the 2 months that he completely changed from the man that I knew. Finally I said your time is not accounted for in what your telling me, is there someone else and he finally confessed. Of course he tells me that the OW is so proud of him for telling me after only 2 months, yippee for them-oh brother. I would ask your H is there is someone else.


Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca