Marisol, first I want to say it is a new day. I know you survived even thought each minute had to be difficult for you... You were all in our thoughts yesterday. T2L, glad your son is doing better and talking it through. You are a GREAT mother and have his needs first. He is a strong little guy. As for my D knowing about the OW -- I think she might be suspicious. When he said he was going out Saturday night, she asked me who was he going with and I said a bunch of guys and she said "yeah, right". I told her that is what he told me. twinhope, thought it was in poor taste for H to take your Ds to the movie with the OW. But on a good note this might help the OW see all the "baggage" her new exciting boyfriend has. What 21 year old OW who posts on My Space wants to be saddled with a 30 year old problems. Most 21 year olds I know want to be out partying and having fun doing shots -- not putting up with someone else's kids. I think it will get old real quick for her. I am sure her friends are telling her that it is not a good relationship for her. I think this A will die a natural death in the near future. I really do. As for myself, I am a nervous wreck. We meet with the MC tonight at 8:30. Not sure what to say. I do not want him to think that he has this all wrapped up neatly in some little package. First, get an apt, then after 3 months if all goes well, move on with the divorce. (his words). I have no say. Pray for me tonight. Pray that he opens his mind to other alternatives. I am scared. I need to say the right words.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
