MY post was never to tell you your husband cheats, lies, etc. Mine was to say, he is most likely telling people things because he knows he can get a reaction out of you and it did.
As for the money account--nothing wrong with giving him info. that he may/may not have known.
Sometimes people come across in a different way and then you have to step back and realize that they have been hurt really bad, some worse than others.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19