call it what it has become big sis.... a b!tch board
it's a forum that peeps come to with hopefulness that they find on google equal to a blurb on the back of a book. they get here and find a bunch(not all...again, not all) of whiners complaining about how their life sucks cuz their big bad walk aways are so mean. there are no "problems" anymore. instead of getting support, in the forms of stand, and wait and shut up but most importantly fix your own stuff, they get enablement. makes them feel pretty good too.... for a minute. a pat on the back is the same as a kick in the @$$
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.