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kissak,

your H is a piece of work!

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Originally Posted By: butterflymom
kissak,

your H is a piece of work!

BFM


That he is!

You know, Ive had a good couple of days lately. I have to say that a friend of mine said he went on a singles website last night to look at the OW's profile....well it was still there. And to make it all worth while....she flirted with him. She and my H are back together and moving in and she is still on a singles website flirting with Other men.

I guess she thinks if he can do it, so can she!

lol

Fruitcakes!

Last time she did that, I told my H....he said I helped them by doing that! haha.

I will not say a word this time to him about it. His problem. I will not and I am NOT going to interfer with anything with them this time around whatsoever...not even about the kids. Because when he is out on the streets with no where to go, I will NOT be blamed at all!!

LOL, my H has just texted me....already this am. Wonder what it says. HE called the kids this am and I spoke to him briefly, told him where he could pick up the kids at today and that was it.

Im gonna have a good day and I hope all of yall do too!


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Here is what his text said: ok its after 9 your supposed to be at work lol.



Yep, Im at work...whats it to you?


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HUH? Why would he send a tm like that?? Is he flipping out or something?

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I think he was just trying to be funny.

He called a little while ago to give his landlord a message. She works for me. I gave her the message. He then asked if I was ok, I said that I was fine...he then said, ok, you do sound a little chipper today.

Im smiling cuz I know he's gonna be out on his butt soon.

He texted alittle while ago to, it said "Hey, what u doing"

I think he is flipping out wondering how come I aint talking and texting no more.

I only answer his texts and thats it...I replyed to his last one that I was "working"


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Good for you! You are handling this so wonderfully IMO! \:\)

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Thanks FriendlyGal

I have to say I am in a great mood today.

Weird thing though, H called me again after lunch.

He asked what I was doing and then he wanted to know if I had been home today by chance.

I told him no and then asked why he wanted to know that.

He said he was just asking, I said "what? do I need to go home for some reason?" He said no, he was just asking. I said, well there is a reason why you would ask if Ive been home today. I have been at work all day.

He finally said he wanted to be honest with me, his nerves were bothering him today....I didnt say anything. I tried not to ask what was wrong because quite frankly I didnt want to know. But Im assuming it has to do with the OW. SHe lives a block from me and there is no telling what is going on with her today. Dont matter to me.

All I said to him was "take a nerve pill". lol

then he quietly said under his breath, "its just my nerves"

I then told him I had to go.

See....see what happens when I dont interfer and I stay away?

Ugh!

Im still having a great day! Not letting him bother me. Im so glad his nerves are bothering him!

Im good!!


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His nerves huh? These MLCers all seem to have "nerve" problems don't they?

PS- I'm glad you figured out who I am. \:\)

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Personally I think you still give him way way to much of yourself...the tm's that he sends I wouldn't bother with...if you have someone at work let them answer the phone...or if you do and it is him just politely say, "Please don't call me at work...or really there is no need to call me unless there is a problem with the kids."

You need to cut the rope that binds you two...he needs to sink or swim...this floundering is doing none of you any good....


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You know Dar....I was wondering how come a friendlygal was posting to me all of a sudden!!


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