Sometimes I just feel like she is trying to make me give up on her, or get mad at her, does that sound like a possibility to anyone?
YES!!
Onedge, I'm not so familiar with your situation, but this seems like a very common action of a WAS. They don't want the responsibility of carrying all the guilt, so they need a way to make the LBS look less desirable or look like the bad guy. They need to find reasons to justify their actions.
