God give me the patience and the strength...7

[theotherhalf]

I didn't ignore an2m. I cried when I read the posts, there were so many good points. I didn't have time to post back. When I got on here again my thread was locked. So I started a new one.

"they lie...they cheat...they spend..."

although it is very true that MLC'rs follow a script, there is exceptions...

this has been going on for 1 1/2 yrs. My H still shares the checking account with me. He doesn't have any other accounts. His paycheck is deposited into that account every week. For the first 6-8 months he spent alot on camping and running around with OW. Not sure on what or how much. He would sell hay and stuff then pocket that cash. But that quit a long time ago. He went and bought the Harley but only after his truck was paid for and the bikes payment is only half what the trucks was.

Him living in another house is really strapping us. Changing jobs is crunching things even more so. He took a $7 pay cut. But these are things he believes he needs to do for "him". I can't change those things. He ignores me when I tell him there is not enough money to pay the bills. He still has the attitude that it is what it is and we have to deal with it. But for the most part he is being pretty responsible with money.

And an2m, I have seen 3 D L's. They all say the same. Keep track of everything. I do. There is nothing else I can do until one of us files.