MWG, I really am doing a good job at staying out of this part of the mess. It did tick me off when I heard what he had been saying but he did not know that. I just plain asked and didn't react at all and then let it go. Just like his 401K from the old job. He had talked about cashing it in. STUPID!! But I said nothing. Other than "maybe you should check into an IRA so you don't have to give the government so much of it". Then I let it go. Now he is saying he's going to roll it over. I say nothing.

The only advice I've given him on the farm is to not give up on himself and all he's dreamed of. And I've asked him to not keep me in the dark, to let me know what's going on because this affects my life too. Otherwise I stay out of it. These are his decisions to make.


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!