I don't think so MWG, and I think he was ticked that everyone was talking about him. He wanted to know who told me, of course I didn't tell him. Right now it seems to be really bugging him that people "seem" to be checking up on him (they're not) and talking about what he is doing. I can understand that but "duh"!, quite being so stupid and people won't. And he doesn't understand that they care.

When he says this stuff to me, and he does, your right, that is what he is doing. And I usually laugh him off or play along you might say. This was different. He really is throwing these ideas around in his head. MHO (maybe I'm totally crazy) it's like he has awaken, and seen the disaster he has created. He is really spinning right now. His life is a mess, he knows it, and he doesn't know what to do about it. He knows it needs to change, but doesn't know what to do to change it. So he is throwing these ideas out and around.

We really are in the same boat.

Last edited by theotherhalf; 09/09/08 10:54 AM.

M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!