Man oh man! I think he is in serious limbo country. He seems angry at the world b/c his W left him. Well, big deal, it's not like he is the only man out there this has happen to before!
This makes me think of my friend AmyC whose stitch was not like yours, but she and H split and he never could seem to forgive her and get over it. She did everything she could think of to get the M back together, but no go b/c of his stubborness.
I don't know, sweetie, you may have that type of man on your hands too. Have to ask yourself if you are sure you want to wait this out or move on. It's your call. But, frankly, I just don't know what to do with the man. I'm afraid my patient would run out real quicly. Of course, I'm not the one in love with him....lol.
It's after midnight and I should have my backside in the bed. You may have to come pull me out in the morning to get me off to work!
Glad you cut back on some of those hours. I was concerned about you working too much to try to compensate the lonliness. Anyway, like you said, now you are focused on your education. If you can just keep your mind in that direction......you'll do good.
I think I'm beginning to dream a little now, so better sign off.
Talk to you later. Take care.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!