Oh I know and she knows and deep down he knows it too. I can only sit back and pray for their family. I hope he gets help before he wrecks her life. She already has such low self esteem even though she is gorgeous and funny and sweet but because of him she feels like crap all the time and unattractive and all that. It's terrible.
I have the comfort of knowing that my hubby would not do that to me. I do need to bring in my claws though when it comes to other women in his life. My jealousy really bothers him. Whereas I wish he were more possesive of me. He just lets me do whatever I want with no questions asked and sometimes it makes me feel like he doesn't care about me. Does that make any logical sense?
In fact when I was telling hubby about her sitch I said "I'm glad that I know that you would never do anything like that" and he nodded. He is not the porn and brothel type. I just worry about him with other females (like army buddies and co-workers) sometimes he does not know where to draw the line. Like he thinks it is okay to go out to lunch one on one with another female. Or he has come home with little drawings on his arm or hand from a female co-worker which sounds petty but it bothers me A LOT! And he also has female friends that text him frequently which also bothers me.
Oh I hope he finds the help he needs. But I also hope she does too. Has she looked for a C to help with this. Somtimes the most beautiful people suffer from the worst self esteem.
My H likes porn but it's just innocent. He's stressed so much how faithful he is and has been.. The porn is more evident when we are having problems. Hand in hand problems I guess.
I have told him so much "I turst YOU, it's the women I don't" Other women can be horrible and sometimes a guy likes the attention so much he doesn't realize that boundaries have been crossed.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I know. Same with my hubby. He thinks it is all fun and games but the way women act sometimes. . .grrr! Like flirting with him right in front of me and then having the nerve to say something like "you're just as beautiful as he said you were" while stepping closer to MY hubby and looking at HIM!
Who does that!!!
And he just thinks "she was giving you a compliment chill out"
Sh!t I just sent xh the lyrics to Goodbye My Lover by James Blunt....it fits us so well. I hope he's ok with it. F it I love the song and it remind me of him who cares
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
