ok well after everything that I heard today I have lost all momentum in regards to how I've been doing. Thought maybe there was a chance in hell that she'd come back now, woops. How many guys does she need to go through ? She just got pregnant and the guy left her, now she is fishing elsewhere? Come on
Sorry the vent/rant
BC, rant and vent all you want. Your wife now thinks of you as a bud. Telling you about OM and then telling you about new guy. Were you just kind of going along with it? It's like she was treating you like her gay friend.
Sorry.
Time to start worrying about yourself. She is gone. If she wants back, she'll come back. Maybe you'll take her back. Until then, just think of yourself and your kids because she's not.
It's one thing to give grace, but I think you need to rethink your position a bit.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."