Read poet's replies on this thread from last night. She mistakenly called you bridgestone and it has just cracked me up, bless her heart!
So...
How much tread ya got left?
How much tread do I have left? Well, since I have been divorced for almost 2 years, there is a lot of tread left here that I haven;t used in quite some time! LOL I'll have to read the posts by the poet! LOL That's funny!!
Forrest, this is so true. The answer is the realization, the truth behind the lie, the needle in the haystack of confusion. I'm looking for the answers now, and when/as I find them, I begin to see the reasons for letting go...of my husband.
AmyC, Thank you for your comments on this board. I did ask you to check in on me, but I realize now that you are writing all the answers for us. Thank you for doing this. I did notice you are on the boards more infrequently right now, and it is because you are writing. I will be here when you have it written.
Also, thank you for the two answers you just gave me, the negative treatment and the ways in which I spoke to my husband, "the guilt, shame and self-punishment," etc.
I am glad for this thread; thank you to Bridgestone.
Peace, peace, peace, poet
Poet, you are welcome! Bridgestone is here to help! LOL
I realized I'm in no condition mentally, spiritually or emotionally to date
sucks when you realize that. ugh. I broke it off with that girl in 06 because of that. We stayed friends, then the other kind of friends for a while. We are still friends to this day, I think she wants to hook back up(who wouldn't?), but I'm not there. She spent time alone, I told her that I didn't think shewas over her XH, 2 months later they tried to get back together. But he had anger, and basicly used her. She spent a lot of time alone, and I think she is good now. She is still dependent on me for a lot of things, but I am being careful in the friendship. Anywho, I realized that I wasn't over the M. Not so much xw, but I didn't know how to date w/out getting all into it right away. Just wasn't ready, and it took that to realize that.
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
I realized I'm in no condition mentally, spiritually or emotionally to date
sucks when you realize that. ugh. I broke it off with that girl in 06 because of that. We stayed friends, then the other kind of friends for a while. We are still friends to this day, I think she wants to hook back up(who wouldn't?), but I'm not there. She spent time alone, I told her that I didn't think shewas over her XH, 2 months later they tried to get back together. But he had anger, and basicly used her. She spent a lot of time alone, and I think she is good now. She is still dependent on me for a lot of things, but I am being careful in the friendship. Anywho, I realized that I wasn't over the M. Not so much xw, but I didn't know how to date w/out getting all into it right away. Just wasn't ready, and it took that to realize that.
Fortunately I realized it pretty much right outta the gate.
Fortunately I realized it pretty much right outta the gate.
Everything was just all wrong.
You know? I did too. And I would comunicate that to her. I told her I would always be honest, with what was up. When I broke it off, I told her why, she told me that I was afraid of the title(she was right), and that I was an emotional cripple(she was right). So she would ask me to come over on my way to work.... I'd say, you know I'd be using you, she would say that's okay, I'll be using you too. I'd think how weak.....but of course I went. Now I think about myself doing that and I think, how weak.
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I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
