I realized I'm in no condition mentally, spiritually or emotionally to date
sucks when you realize that. ugh. I broke it off with that girl in 06 because of that. We stayed friends, then the other kind of friends for a while. We are still friends to this day, I think she wants to hook back up(who wouldn't?), but I'm not there. She spent time alone, I told her that I didn't think shewas over her XH, 2 months later they tried to get back together. But he had anger, and basicly used her. She spent a lot of time alone, and I think she is good now. She is still dependent on me for a lot of things, but I am being careful in the friendship. Anywho, I realized that I wasn't over the M. Not so much xw, but I didn't know how to date w/out getting all into it right away. Just wasn't ready, and it took that to realize that.
Fortunately I realized it pretty much right outta the gate.
