I really do know that the just friends approach is very difficult how ever the best results I have seen here are the people who are able to truly be friends and truly give their spouse that space. I honestly believe that if she would take the time to look she would see that I will truly be her friend for ever and maybe now that is for the best only god knows that right now.
I am sorry about your sep and possibly another one. It is a herd life and creates issues that most people don't have to deal with.
I was just courious about the nature and duration of his up comming training. Is this something you would normally go on. A lot of time family tag along with great problems but it becomes a hassle having them there. Just try and think that over from all angles before asking.
Me 27, W26 T-12 M-4 SEP 4/29/08 Holding 250 miles Awaiting Support Current