Congrats on makin the move over to here. IMHO H has given you the answer to your assumptions it's natural for a spouse to react in the manner of 'what did I do know'. H reacted too this pretty good he explained what he meant by the words he used and gave you a little clue to how to act next time something like that happens. As you are finding out there is still going to be little stones in your path, as long as things continue to go in the manner in which things eventually work out and nobody shuts done you will learn from each other.
"Then after Retro we stopped for gas in a tiny little town called Mead (maybe Racefan knows where that is he is a Nebraska boy)."
Yep know exactly where it's at. Glad the concert went well and the way things worked out in the end, that's how it is suppose to go...talk it out realize where things went wrong and then don't go to bed mad...wink wink nudge nudge play play...HEHEHE!!
You're doing good girl I'm proud of you and your H...