Hi Max, I have not read your stitch, but will try to get that worked in my schedule. However, as a rule of thumb, we do not call our S about anything unless it is absolutley necessary, for example...business matters or the children. It is easy to use the kids and things around the home, etc. to call the S, but if you can keep from it, it would be best to show that you are independent and will be just fine. That is part of acting "act if". Otherwise, it comes across as being needy and clingy. Neither gender of WAS's like to see that in the LBS. It is a complete "turn off" for them. So, act sharp, competent, sassy and cool. Don't take zip off of him and look hot enough to kill him when he sees you! (lol) Whatever you do, don't have a meltdown in front of him. Keep it together and act poised and graceful (even if you want to be a b*tch). Remember......"classy" all the way! Give him a good picture of you to take away with him that will linger on in his mind.
Don't call, email, or text. He needs to miss you and he can't miss you if you are always doing these things. So, stay away for now as much as you can, but when the two of you do have to meet......look blow him away with your confidence! That is the sexiest thing a woman can do......be confident. (According to what all the men say!)
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
