That's good progress Jen. I'm working on it. We were supposed to go out tonight but he cancelled to go play waterpolo with his guy friends. In the past I would've flipped! out and threw a fit but instead I affirmed him plans and told him I was happy he was going to play again (it's something he hasn't done in a long long time) and he was sweet about it and made plans for us to get together tomorrow instead so it's all good.