I do need to let go of my control issues and my stubborness. We are such good friends. That's what hubby always says that we are great friends. So our counselor asked us where we start to have problems and we did not have an answer at the time but thinking about it the last day or two I have realized that it is when we (or rather I) have unmet expectations that I get upset and we end up with friction between us which explodes into an argument. So now the question is. . .how do I keep myself from having expectations in the first place and then if I do have an expectation or need that goes unmet how do I keep myself from getting upset. It's sooooo hard for me to let things go until I say how I feel about it. If that makes any sense at all. . .
