Kissak I haven't kept up lately with your thread, but where I think you get confused is that you allow your h to get you sucked into ow convos and drama etc. I wouldn't want to have those kinds of convos.
Also did your h really hear that God says D is ok. We lots of times think that is God, since that is what we may want for our lives. I highly doubt that was Gods message.
Yes, My H believes he is doing the right thing...for him. He does believe that this is ok with God. But my H doesnt read the bible and I know he is being fooled by satan. This is what my H wants, not God....but I think God is allowing this for a reason and I cant wait to see what God's will is for me.
I do agree that I do get confused by my H. He does talk about the OW alot...but honestly not as much as he use to. He knows it hurts me and so know he doesnt talk about it so much. I do get sucked in easily. I think its because when they have problems, I get my hopes up...but I know that even if they werent together, he wouldnt come back now anyway...he thinks there still too many chances for them. I think they are on "chance 19" now after a year and a half. Isnt that riduculas?
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
I am so sorry kissack--he is just so blinded right now (aren't they all) and all you can do is pray for his salvation and for God to open his eyes as he has been blinded by the enemy.
I am sorry he talks about ow a lot to you.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I would agree I do pretty good praying and tithing, but sometimes forget to fast. I think God wants me to read the word more often too, to get closer to him. I need to make sure I put him first and my W second. I pray for my marriage and return for my W so much sometimes I feel like I might be putting God second or about equal to. I know I need more work, but I do feel like have come a long way in my relationship with God as compared to before my W left. I plan on doing what it takes to get her back in my arms, where she will feel safe, comfortable, happy and loved.
Hey Sooners,
Keep up the good work. God knows your heart and will honor him who honors Him. Keep praying to God for guidance on what you need to change and how to resolve your and W's differences and how to heal the R.
...but I think God is allowing this for a reason and I cant wait to see what God's will is for me.
I do agree that I do get confused by my H. He does talk about the OW alot...but honestly not as much as he use to. He knows it hurts me and so know he doesnt talk about it so much. I do get sucked in easily. I think its because when they have problems, I get my hopes up...but I know that even if they werent together, he wouldnt come back now anyway...he thinks there still too many chances for them. I think they are on "chance 19" now after a year and a half. Isnt that riduculas?
Kissak, It's good you realize that God has a purpose in all of this. I think it's a good thing that your H talks less about OW. Hopefully, it's because he doesn't see having OW as much of a big deal as before.
Pray for God to open his eyes to see that all the chances in the world won't make him happy.
Thank You PH....I do realize that God has a reason for all of this. I just wish he would hurry up and tell me what it is already!!
I asked my H once if he could see all the problems he was having was maybe a sign from God that he needed to get his life right.
He said no.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
