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You know whats kind of sad...I've been here since F-ing Feb and I'm getting sooo impatient. I know I can blame myself for so much and I can't stop kicking my own butt \:\(


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I don't know how my "sign" plays into this mess but my hubby and I are both stubborn little guys too. But ya know what if I am honest with myself I wouldn't want a pushover. Isn't that silly?


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Ohh Jen!

Just look how far you have come since Feb though!!!


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What is your sign Daisy? My xH got fed up with himself because after a while in our M he didn't stand up for himself as much as he thinks he should have. He says if he had we might not have gotten a D.


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Ahh! My husband said that too! When he got home from boot camp he said that "being in the army has given me self esteem" and that was his reason for being "assertive" which felt like agression if you ask me! Grrr.

Sorry. . .ranting over.

I am a leo (roar!) and he is a. . .? January 17th?


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Jen you are doing great!! Stop it!!

Oh my sign plays so much into it also!! I am a Cancer and my emotional rollercoaster was enough to drive my Scorpio crazy.

Daisy I would go mad with a push over I need someone who can stand up for themselves, have their own opinion and put me in my place when I get a bit out of hand.


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I agree Sep but at times. . .lol.

Ya kinda wanna kill them!


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lol stop what? I'm fine. I don't blame myself for everything. Sure I went wrong in some ways but no one is 100% to blame for anything \:\)

Daisy, my Bros Bday is Jan 17th too. That would be a Capricorn. My mom and bros are both Caps.


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So any hope for a leo/cap combo? Hehe.


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Daisy I would go mad with a push over I need someone who can stand up for themselves, have their own opinion and put me in my place when I get a bit out of hand.


I agree. But my XH just let me have my own way and then he got fed up and left.


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