Sleeper,

I know just how you feel. It gets to the point of, "whatever".
You get tired of not being yourself. I think you did fine. You are not a doormat, you have a life, she needs to respect your time. You had legitimate boundary setting issues.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11