Divorced but hoping to Reconcile

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Also, I think a lot of men have feelings that you did with having a child--they panic. I think there should be classes for expectant fathers, too, and without any women in them.

If I may ask one more question, what prompted some of the self-reflection and change priorities? It sounds as if accomplishing some of the things you wanted to made a difference?

Keep doing what you are doing. It sounds as if you have some competition, quite frankly. but I can tell you that she has probably remembered good times with you, too.

"I know that this is going to take patience, but sometimes I don't know if I am wasting my time trying to reconcile."

You are not, but it is going to take more patience than you can imagine. You really have to be up for this haul. She probably "tried" with you for a long time...if you can at least match that you may get somewhere....