Hi there! Can you link us to your sitch? How long have you been S? Have either of you filed for D? Do you have and kids? How long have you been M?
The thing is you'll be told to GAL, have a PMA and act as if. I think those strategies will get you somewhere fast.
What can you do to take your mind off of the W and focus on you? What do you like to do? How do you like to spend your free time? Was there anything you liked to do before you got M but stopped doing?
The PMA means that you need to adopt a positive attitude. What ways can you see things more fabourably? What are some things you can do to keep bad thoughts away?
Acting as if means that you act as if everything is fine. What are some ways that you can act so that your W wonders WTF abnout you? What can you do make yourself belive that you're going to be fine?
Sorry just tossing ideas at you. I hope you come back and join us.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
