Divorced but hoping to Reconcile

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LMNW, you sound as if you are making the right moves.

It is interesting that you talk about education, etc.. I think my H's ultimate issue was that he had not accomplished something work-wise that he really wanted to accomplish.

It has now happened and I am wondering if that might change things. I am wondering if he will realize that the universe has not stopped because of this achievement.

If I were assessing his priorities from my perspective, they would be in this order:

-His feelings
-His work
-Rescuing his girlfriend
-Time to himself
-Maybe our D. Maybe.
-Maybe his family. Maybe.
-Cleaning the toliet
-Watching TV
-Insert about 100 items here
-Me